fix(show): star marker, aligned gutter and smarter AUR merge

N?? / show marks the upstream candidate with "*" instead of ">" (the
prompt, which read as a command in logs), and every line but the note
gets a two-character gutter: "  " for the installed record, "* " for the
candidate, so keys and colons line up. The plain native fallback (zypper,
unmergeable records) and the not-installed candidate use the same gutter.

pacman records (-Qi with -Si or the AUR helper's -Sia) are now compared
the way they are meant:
- values unwrapped (continuation lines joined, runs of blanks as one):
  yay wraps Depends On / Optional Deps at 80 columns even without a
  terminal unless COLUMNS=0, which the helper now gets for -Qua and -Sia
- Depends On, Provides, Conflicts With, Make/Check Deps and the other
  lists as sets of exact tokens in any order (a constraint is a change)
- Optional Deps by package names ("name: description [installed]" in
  -Qi, bare names from the AUR)
- a differing value is one line like -Qi, Optional Deps one entry per
  line; candidate-only fields sit next to their counterpart (Repository
  after Version, AUR URL after URL, Maintainer after Packager, ...)

Verified on recorded claude-desktop records (paru 2.1.0, yay 13.0.1, the
installed 2.9939.4-1 from the AUR's own .SRCINFO); discovery/pacman.md
section 15.2.

tests/unit/data/aur/Sia-yay-claude-desktop.txt

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+Repository                    : aur
+Name                          : claude-desktop
+Version                       : 2.31226.1-1
+Description                   : Official Claude AI desktop app from Anthropic — Chat, Cowork, and Claude Code
+URL                           : https://claude.com/download
+Licenses                      : LicenseRef-Proprietary
+Groups                        : None
+Provides                      : None
+Depends On                    : alsa-lib  at-spi2-core  bubblewrap  cairo  dbus
+                                expat  gcc-libs  glib2  glibc  gtk3
+                                hicolor-icon-theme  libcap-ng  libcups  libdrm
+                                libnotify  libpipewire  libseccomp  libsecret
+                                libx11  libxcb  libxcomposite  libxdamage
+                                libxext  libxfixes  libxkbcommon  libxrandr
+                                libxtst  mesa  nspr  nss  pango  socat
+                                systemd-libs  util-linux-libs  virtiofsd
+                                xdg-desktop-portal  xdg-utils  qemu-system-x86
+                                edk2-ovmf
+Optional Deps                 : gnome-keyring  kwallet  libayatana-appindicator
+                                xdg-desktop-portal-gtk  xdg-desktop-portal-kde
+                                qemu-system-aarch64  edk2-aarch64
+Make Deps                     : None
+Check Deps                    : None
+Conflicts With                : claude  claude-desktop-bin
+Replaces                      : None
+AUR URL                       : https://aur.archlinux.org/packages/claude-desktop
+First Submitted               : Sun 05 Jul 2026 01:58:02 AM UTC
+Keywords                      : None
+Last Modified                 : Fri 09 Oct 2026 11:31:19 PM UTC
+Maintainer                    : diazkev314
+Popularity                    : 6.458490
+Votes                         : 21
+Out-of-date                   : No
+